Connecting with others: How can we respect each other?
Examining respectful and disrespectful behaviour by considering how actions and expectations can vary in different settings.
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Connecting with others: How can we respect each other?
Unit outcomes
Pupils who are secure will be able to:
- Recognise how their words, tone and behaviour show respect in different places and situations.
- Use positive self-talk to stay calm, build confidence and manage frustration.
- Explain what trust looks like in friendships and how to strengthen or repair it when problems arise.
- Set and respect personal boundaries and respond assertively when something feels unfair or unsafe.
- Practise resolving disagreements fairly, including through compromise.
- Understand what a bystander is and describe safe, appropriate ways to act if they witness or experience bullying.
- Learn what stereotypes are and how they can be unfair.
Prior learning
Connecting with others: What helps us feel safe and included?
Get startedLessons
Lesson 1: How can I show self-respect?
Lesson 2: How can I show respect to others?
Lesson 3: How can I build trusting friendships?
Lesson 4: How can we solve friendship challenges?
Lesson 5: How should I respond to bullying?
Lesson 6: What is a stereotype?
Key skills
Key skills
Key knowledge
Equipment list
Equipment needed across all lessons in this unit.
This list does not include equipment which is usually readily available in the classroom (e.g pencils, A4 paper etc)
Full equipment list for the subject
Quantities marked × will update. Items without quantities are unaffected
- Wonder box ×1
- Building blocks and connecting cubes Each pair: 6
- Scissors right- and left-handed options recommended. ×15
- A2 sugar paper ×5
The equipment below is optional
- Sticky notes
- Mini-mirrors ×30
Equipment list
Quantities marked × will update. Items without quantities are unaffected
- Wonder box ×1
- Building blocks and connecting cubes Each pair: 6
- Scissors right- and left-handed options recommended. ×15
- A2 sugar paper ×5
The equipment below is optional
- Sticky notes
- Mini-mirrors ×30
Related content
Unit resources
Vocabulary display – RSE & PSHE Y4: How can we respect each other?
A display version of the vocabulary from the unit 'How can we respect each other?'
Cross-curricular opportunities
English: Spoken language.
British values: Individual liberty; Mutual respect.